Talk:Banica Conchita/@comment-189.222.64.215-20140128035051/@comment-146.113.69.84-20140131020217

We're not talking about beating people for their appearance. We're not talking about vicious comments. We're not talking about whatever horrible things might have happened to you (which I am sorry for, because they have clearly made you very bitter). We're not even talking about ordinarily overweight people.

We're talking about BANICA CONCHITA. Who, if you didn't know, was on the verge of death from overeating. That is explicit in the text. Do you know how unhealthy you have to be to be on the verge of death by overeating? So yeah, if someone was stuffing their face to that ridiculous degree, I would expect them to be a bit silly looking.

Who was Tomboy Jessie bullying? Her opinion was specifically about this obese fictional character. It wasn't even a hurtful comment--it was just, "I was expecting to be amused, but I found her cute instead". That's it. There was no one else involved in that scope. There was nothing dehumanizing or confrontational in that text. You can find someone funny without hating them. Your comment, on the other hand, specifically called Jessie disgusting, and that she could "go fuck [her]self". Your comment was specifically meant to be harmful. Thus it is bullying. The fact that you lashed out in pain does not make it justified.